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Supporting the Supporter: A Note to Parents
Parenting is a journey filled with immense joy, but also unique challenges. When you’re raising a neurodivergent child, or one who is navigating mental health struggles like anxiety or depression, the path can sometimes feel overwhelming. This post is a note to you—the tireless supporter—about maintaining your own wellness while being the safe harbor your child needs.
1. You cannot pour from an Empty Cup
It’s a cliché because it’s true. The most loving thing you can do for your child is to ensure you are also cared for. This isn’t selfish; it’s essential. Take time for activities that genuinely replenish you, whether it’s a quiet cup of tea, a walk in nature, or connecting with a supportive friend. Even small moments of self-care can make a significant difference in your capacity to parent with patience and presence.
2. Seek Your Own Safe Space
Just as your child benefits from a non-judgmental space to express themselves, so do you. Finding your own therapist, a support group for parents of neurodivergent children, or a trusted confidante can provide an invaluable outlet. Processing your feelings—the worries, the joys, the frustrations—in a confidential setting helps you gain perspective and develop coping strategies for the unique demands of your family life.
3. Celebrate the Small Victories (Yours and Theirs)
The journey can be long, and progress isn’t always linear. Make a conscious effort to acknowledge and celebrate not just your child’s milestones, but your own efforts as a parent. Did you successfully navigate a challenging conversation? Did you carve out 15 minutes for yourself today? These small victories add up, reinforcing your resilience and reminding you of your strength.
Remember:
You are doing an incredible job. Prioritizing your own mental wellness isn’t a luxury; it’s a fundamental part of creating a harmonious and supportive environment for your entire family. By taking care of yourself, you model essential self-compassion and resilience for your child.